Hi once again Alan, I must apologize for my previous grasping at straws, it was not from lack of trying, just lack of knowledge... I have managed to figure it out thanks to your last comment Alan DeKok wrote:
If you want the requests to be proxied to a DIFFERENT location, you will need to set the "Proxy-To-Realm" attribute manually. i.e.
server a { preacct { update control { Proxy-To-Realm := "realm for home server A" } } }
And do the same thing for B. And configure two realms, too.
Since you are TELLING it what realm to use you can call your realm what you like and you dont need to rely on your domain suffix... Thanks to all the required fiddling I have a much better understanding of the configuration files. If anyone is stuck with this just drop me a mail, Ill be happy to help :) Thanks again for your time and assistance Alan & Craig, appreciated as always, Patric